Six Month Blog Anniversary (Or Half Birthday?)

Hey Everyone! Today is the six month anniversary of my blog! Yes that's right. I have had a blog for half a freaking year! In the past six months a lot has happened. Here is a list recapping everything.

1. I got a blog

2. I went from crutches to walking

3. I went to Disneyland

4. Got involved in tons of untrue rumors

5. Legally became an adult

6. Passed my mock exams

7. Got a car

8, Learnt how to drive

9. Hooked up with a guy which came with some drama

10. Finished my exams

So there it is. My top ten moments over the last six months. Hope you have enjoyed it!

- Random Girl xx

I am a Murderer! Sort of.

So today's post is quite short. So here it is,

I have been really busy lately and haven't had a chance to practice driving in a month. This is the longest I have gone without driving by the way. So last night I made a plan with my mum and my friend Elena who has passed her driving test, to go on a short drive with me.

Today I was driving around the village when these two birds decide to cross the narrow road, blocking it. So like any other person would do, I slow right down, giving them time to fly away. So I keep going slowly and the next thing I see through my mirror is bird feathers flying everywhere! I killed them! So at this point I am freaking out and crying as I drive. Not the best practice session I have had.

There you have it. My very short post on how I became a murderer. I feel awful about the whole thing and I hope they rest in peace.

- Random Girl xx

Complaining About Life

Hey! So if anyone is still out there keeping an eye on my blog even though I have been the crappest blogger lately then I love you! And I am sorry. I have good news and bad news. The good- I am now home so I can finally post regularly for the first time in months. The bad- life is extremely boring right now so not much interesting gossip. That means my posts will probably be really random or about stuff that happened ages ago that I promised to tell you about but never got around to it.

So on to my actual post. If you have read my older posts then you would know that I whine and moan about my problems a lot. And for that I am sorry because that probably gets old very fast. Also it probably makes seem like I hate life when I really do love life. But today I have been questioning the difference between whining about little things and moaning about big important things and victimising yourself.

As everyone knows, I whine a lot. I am always complaining about how I am tired, hungry or in pain. Because usually that is how I feel. But everyone does it. Especially teenagers. I mean don't most teenagers who get a blog use it to whine about their lives? I know I do. But there are also people who go on and on about more important matters. Like their parents fighting or someone dying. They will use it as an excuse for everything. I mean sure it sucks. It is horrible. And if you confide with someone about it then they should listen and be understanding. But bringing it up every two seconds to make people feel sorry for you or to get attention is not the same thing. It is extremely annoying. Everyone has problems in their lives. Everyone. No one is perfect. So instead of trying to get attention for something serious that is going on is actually really horrible. As if the attention is more important than the problem itself.

For everyone out there with problems... you should talk to someone if you think it will make you feel better. But the person who is listening to you isn't there to give you attention. They are there because they love you and care about whatever it is that is affecting you. 

For example, I have had friends with issues that at first I really cared about. I was worried about my friend. But then they crave the attention and start to use it as an excuse telling you that your life is perfect because their life sucks. Or that there problems are more important than your own. Like I said before though, everyone has issues. And people don't really have the right to say their problems are worse than yours because they might not know what is going on with you.

So yes, I complain a lot. But when it comes to the important stuff... I don't tell people. Like ever. I find it awkward and difficult. Because what is the point in dumping all my problems on my friends when they have their own issues to work out. I know for a fact that there are things going on in my friends lives. So would telling them that both my grandmas are dying or that my parents argue all the time help anyone? Should I go around telling everyone that I have no freaking clue what I wanna do in life and have no passion for anything which makes me extremely scared, so that they would pay more attention to me? I think not. Maybe I complain about the little things because it is safer than the big things. I dunno. But I think it is more important to deal with the issue than to get attention for it.

Sorry if I rambled on too much. It is not exactly the most exciting post. I will try my best to fish interesting stories out of my currently very boring life for you guys. Also as a side note, I have been writing a lot on Wattpad recently and am already planning my fifth book after only writing for about a month or two. So if any of you are interested I will add the link to my google plus account. If it is not there when you read this then it is because I haven't added it yet.

Love you all so much! Good luck with your life problems! 

- A whiny Random Girl

Summer Sailing Update

Hey guys! I just wanted to let you all know that I am sailing in France.. Though right now I am in the Channel Islands.. This means I will have limited wifi and so I won't be able to post much over the next few weeks.

I am really sorry because I know I promised more, and more interesting posts and I will get to them eventually...

I hope everyone is having a lovely summer! Will try to post again soon!

-Random Girl xx